005: Try this ritual for deep soul connection with your partner

Aug 15, 2020

Today’s episode is all about soul connection and how you can experience it with your partner using one of my favorite Tantric rituals, Masculine/Feminine worship. 

Whether you feel that your partner is your soul mate, wish that he was, or hope that he is but you’re not sure…this 4 step ritual will have you feeling more connected than you have since the two of you first met.

In today’s episode I discuss:

● Soul connection – what it is and the difference between soul connection and attraction

● Why so few of us experience soul connection or if we do, why we loose that feeling over time

● The importance of ritual – what it is, how we can create ritual space to return to soul connection and attraction in a way that feels safe and doesn’t take a ton of time

● One of my favorite Tantric rituals to experience deep connection and honor for your partner

● The 4 step process for masculine/feminine worship so you’ll know how to do it yourself.

Here’s the process in text form so you can have it to refer to and try out with your partner:

Step one: Set up your ritual space

You’re going to set the room up for a sacred sexual experience. Have some candles lit, soft music in the background, make sure you’re showered and fresh and have the bed made and pillows set up.

Step two: Ask each other the following questions:

When you’re ready to begin, sit across from each other in a cross-legged position and ask each other the following questions.

1) What does being fully in your masculine/feminine mean to you? Share what it looks like and feels like and share some of your ideals for manhood/womanhood for yourself.

2) When s/he comes to a natural pause, ask her/him - What supports you as a woman or man?

Step three: See her/him as the highest version of her/himself.

As a man/woman, feel yourself transfigure into the highest version of masculinity/femininity. Feel yourself as a god/goddess. See yourself already as this highest version of yourself while your female/male partner holds this vision for you simultaneously.

Step four: Pussy/Penis Worship

Starting with the man/woman, have him/her lie down naked while giving partner kneels in between the receiving partner’s legs. Receiving partner, taking a deep breath and allow yourself to receive this worship.

As the female partner giving this worship, taking a moment to look at his penis, feeling it as the home of consciousness, power, strength, and integrity – having a sense of reverence and awe of his penis. And then anoint his penis with oil as you repeat 3 times “You are sacred, you are sacred, you are sacred.” Finally, female partner placing both of your hands over his penis and kneeling and allowing a sense of love and respect for your man and his body.
Then switching roles and as the male partner giving this worship, taking a moment to look at her vulva, seeing it as the home, the temple of power, beauty, energy, love and sacredness – having a sense of awe and reverence for this beautiful part of her. And then anoint her vulva with oil as you repeat 3 times, “You are sacred, you are sacred, you are sacred.” Finally, male partner placing both hands over her vulva and kneeling and allowing a sense of love and respect for your woman and her body.
Episode mention:

The Art of Manliness blog, podcast, and book

Lots of love,

Tilly Storm

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