Are you ready to Transform Your Relationship With Your Body and Sexuality for Good?
The journey begins here...Apply for SEW here!
Introducing my signature 5 month Sensually Embodied Woman Group Coaching Program
By the end of this program, you will be able to:
💦Get out of your head and feel connected to your body
💦Feel sexually confident and more turned on
💦Discover what you want and like and how to ask for it
💦Have mind-blowing orgasms in different ways
Now, it might seem that focusing on your pleasure and sexuality is the last thing you have time and energy for…
After all, you’re a high-achieving woman with a family, career and household to manage.
So, let me point out how NOT focusing on your pleasure and sexuality is doing you more harm than you realize
And why breaking through your pleasure blocks is the most important thing you could do for yourself and your family
After speaking with thousands of women,
I’ve found that when you don’t take responsibility for your pleasure and bedroom satisfaction you:
-Resent your partner
-Create more shut down each time you have sex out of duty
-Over-give and people-please because your boundaries suck
-Have unnecessary and embarrassing emotional outbursts with the ones you love most
-Miss out on the beautiful moments of life because you don’t know how to be present
If you put in the time and energy, you CAN change this!
It’s amazing that of the 75 women who’ve been through the Sensually Embodied Woman Group Coaching Program, all of them have experienced more peace, self-love, desire, pleasure, sexiness and connection.
And the truth is YOU can absolutely have it too.
I’ve invested 2.5 years and tens of thousands of dollars making upgrades to SEW based on client feedback to provide you with an excellent, tested and proven system to transform your relationship with your body and sexuality.
If you feel called to massively up level your sex life and relationships
And to access deeper levels of pleasure, joy and desire…then apply for SEW now.
"SEW saved my relationship! My sex drive is through the roof! Having a young child, I had lost myself. I am now happy and know who I am and what I want! Before the program, I had never had an orgasm....now I have several different types! Sex is now not only a regular occurrence but is enjoyable and we are experimenting more than ever."
- Sarah B.
So why should you trust me?
I'm on a mission to help high achieving women experience epic sex and pleasure in the bedroom and beyond.
Knowing that everyone is already multiorgasmic, I have a sweet spot for guiding successful, overachieving moms back into their sensuality and sexuality after motherhood and reconnecting you to the multiorgasmic genius inside.
A rebel and revolutionary in the holistic sex and intimacy coaching space, I'm shifting paradigms and leading people beyond surface level sexual empowerment and into total liberation and bliss.
When not at home, I satisfy my insatiable appetite for adventure and personal growth and development by traveling the world for the next hot surf spot with my boys, or the next retreat to take me deeper in my own journey.
I've been studying women’s bodies and sexuality for over 20 years, first as a pre-med biochemistry major and aspiring OB/GYN, then as a doula and midwife apprentice for 7 years, and then as a holistic sex and intimacy coach since 2017.
Born and raised in the suburbs of New Orleans, Louisiana in a conservative Christian home, my rebel spirit emerged at an early age - defying the mainstream narrative regarding career paths, conventional Western medicine, to spirituality. At 23 years old, my free-birth experience ignited a decade’s long transformation with my body, sexuality, relationships, parenting, money, and career.
After 230,000+ downloads on my podcast - The Multiorgasmic Mama, being voted one of the top 20 sex coaches in the world, and working with hundreds of paying clients, I've learned a lot about what it takes to help people heal their relationship to their body and sexuality. And it’s truly my highest honor and pleasure to provide you with the guidance, support and transformative practices to welcome you home to the multiorgasmic genius inside.
"I've become multiorgasmic! You just don't know until you know how much better it can be! I felt my husband and I had a pretty healthy sex life. Our kids are little but I wanted things to be better with more connection and mind-blowing sex and orgasms. And that's happened!"
So how is SEW so effective?
Well, that’s because it’s the only program out there that I know of that teaches you how to get out of your head, be in your body, and learn to trust it!
I truly believe that most of the worlds problems stem from people being disconnected to their body and their sexuality.
Let’s talk about what happens when you’re disconnected from your body:
- You give your power away to people like doctors who say they know better (and likely have a not so empowering birth experience)
- You end up being miss treated or taken advantage of because you don’t feel you have body autonomy or choice
- You say yes when you really mean no
- You ignore your deep intuition and inner knowing
- You don’t speak up for yourself, your wants, or your desires
- You rely on pharmaceuticals to deal with absolutely normal emotions such as anxiety, overwhelm, stress, cause you don’t know how else to cope with such low vibe experiences
- You eat things that aren’t good for you just to feel better and your health suffers
And what happens when you’re disconnected from your sexuality?
- You lose your spark
- You feel tired and depleted of energy all the time
- You feel unsexy
- You have sex and hope to get it over with as quickly as possible
- You think of your to-do list during sex instead of connecting with your partner and your pleasure
- You miss out on all of the orgasmic ecstasy available because you don’t know how to connect to it
- You feel you aren’t living life to the fullest
But the thing is...
The key to experiencing epic sex and pleasure
is a deeply loving and trustworthy relationship with your body.
And I get how hard that can be!
I grew up Southern Baptist and was yelled at for walking out of the bathroom with a towel around me when I was 6 years old.
You may be like many women out there who were caught touching yourself or masturbating when you were little, and were massively shamed or guilted for it.
So to learn to love and trust your body can be challenging in a world that’s taught you to be ashamed of it, to feel guilty for it, and to disconnect from it.
Why oh why is it so hard to get out of your head, enjoy the moment and be in your pleasure?
I always like to say that the thing that’s made you successful in every area of your life is exactly the conditioning keeping you from experiencing epic sex and pleasure in the bedroom.
Growing up in a Type A, perfectionist, overachieving, hard working family is great for your career success. But how is that go-getter conditioning helping you out in the bedroom?
"To say that my orgasms are better and more is an understatement! I'm having the best orgasms and sex of my life! I was able to learn to enjoy all aspects of pleasure and let myself rest and surrender and be still for the first time ever!"
The world has taught you that pleasure is frivolous
That your desires are evil and sinful
That you only deserve pleasure when all the to-do's are complete
But the thing is,
These stories don’t just exist out there…
As a feminine woman, you’ve internalized this message
You’ve disconnected from pleasure, passion, and play
Because you were taught those things weren’t important.
And that is now manifesting as stuck and stagnant energy in your female organs.
What started as fear, shame, guilt, and disgust
Has now become tension
That leads to disconnection from your body and sexuality
So what to do?
In order to release this tension, we need to work at the nervous system and somatic level to clear blocks to pleasure
To create space in your body/mind to experience the pleasure that already lies inside!
This is what the Sensually Embodied Woman Group Coaching Program does.
It allows you to release all of the limiting stories, beliefs, emotions, and traumas
So that you can experience the multiorgasmic bliss already available inside
By learning to tap into your feminine essence and allow life to flow through you as you connect more with your body and pleasure
So you learn to stop rushing, forcing, pushing, and putting unnecessary expectations on your body.
Which is the exact reason you are lacking pleasure, orgasmic bliss, and intimacy in your sex life with yourself and your partner.
And you learn to SURRENDER and RECEIVE pleasure instead!
"All the practices including the jade egg, helped me get into my body so I could have a better understanding of what the source of overwhelm was. That gave me the support I needed to have that orgasmic Kundalini awakening."
“I feel empowered to continue loving myself and putting myself first, because I’ve seen first hand that when I’m consistent with my practices, I’m able to provide better for my family and my clients. I can do anything I want.”
This might sound crazy to you!
Maybe you're thinking: “No Tilly, it’s not disconnection from my body and sexuality. It’s just my hormones! I need to fix them first.”
Or, “I just need to buy some sexy lingerie, or a new sex toy”
Or you may even be thinking: “I need to hit up the local med-spa, have them give me an o-shot in my clit, and I’ll be good to go for several months.”
Well, I’m here to tell you that none of those actions will work permanently.
They may work temporarily.
They are all a quick fix, but they are NOT THE SOLUTION.
I happen to know from working with hundreds of women that your hormones are likely just fine.
That your new sex toy will probably desensitize you even more
And that o-shot will make you dependent on a doctor every few months just to have an ok orgasm.
The source of your struggle has nothing to do with your hormones, sex toys, lingerie, or medical treatments…
It has EVERYTHING to do with how you’ve been conditioned, and the big T and little t traumas that have built up over a lifetime
To disconnect you from your body and sexuality.
"The jade egg process broke down my walls and helped me get to the depths I needed to go to heal my past sexual trauma."
I know from working on this myself and helping so many woman that when you learn to get out of your head and trust your body…
It re-unites you with your feminine essence
Your deepest wisdom and truth
It connects you to your wild, orgasmic goddess
Who’s felt like a trapped lion awaiting liberation
When you learn to love your body and sexuality,
Your body and sexuality will love you.
And give back to you more than you bargained for in terms of health and satisfaction.
Transform your relationship with your body and sexuality by applying for SEW today!
“Just do the program! If you’re ready to do the work, if you’re sick of feeling like shit. If you’re ready to feel and be empowered, chase your desires and have the life you want to have, do this program!”
Pretty extraordinary right?
Maybe you’re thinking, this sounds a bit woo-woo for you…
Tell me HOW is SEW going to help me get out of my head and experience Earth shattering pleasure in the bedroom and beyond?
I’m happy to tell you…
It’s not as weird, scary or woo-woo as you think, and no one fails in pleasure school.
Sometimes, slowing down is the key to speeding up.
Ever heard the saying “Inch by inch is a synch, but yard by yard is hard?”
Even by doing the 1% more do-able thing can dramatically shift your relationship with your body and sexuality.
I know going down a “healing journey” can sound not so fun, and even daunting.
I hear from women all the time who tell me they’ve been on a “healing journey” for decades.
But, I’m here to tell you that your “healing journey” can not only be pleasurable, but it can also END!
So you can get you off the hamster wheel of your “healing journey” and back into your pleasure and thriving in your sex life and relationships
“I’ve never had an orgasm that’s lasted as long as it did! I’m so blown away by it! I didn’t time it, but it must have been several minutes which is unreal! Even my husband was like, “Are you still having an orgasm” even while I was still having it! You can achieve that level of pleasure when you allow yourself to receive.”
In my 6 month Sensually Embodied Woman Group Coaching Program, I’ll show you how to:
Regulate your nervous system
To uncover the capacity to feel and experience pleasure, by releasing charge and shock from your body.
You will → engage in a daily morning pleasure ritual accountability challenge.
You’ll → release the tendency to suppress uncomfortable emotions & sensations keeping you from your natural state of pleasure and become confident to handle them directly.
Bond With Your Body and Mind
To heal and integrate all the stories, conditioning and traumas preventing you from experiencing your desires.
We will → use lasering tools to heal your body/mind by working with your inner child, your inner mother/father dynamics and empowering new, supportive identities that will help you experience epic sex and pleasure.
You’ll → let go of old inhibiting patterns keeping you from pleasure and desire and become empowered to create a new and empowered sexual identity.
You’ll learn to get out of your head, get in your body and wake up your sexual energy
You will → practice embodiment, trauma healing, and meditation techniques as well as learn the ancient Taoist Jade Egg practice.
You’ll → Feel liberated from the incessant thoughts in your head and learn to ride the pleasure waves into multiorgasmic bliss
Get Sisterhood Support and Accountability
Step into your authentic sensual and sexual expression in a safe space with a supportive circle.
You will → Enter into a highly conscious community of women here to support you every step of the way and keep you accountable to your goals and desires for this program.
You’ll → create lifelong relationships with other women who are also on the same journey.
"I feel whole for the very first time, totally secure in my female sexiness as though it was a true part of me rather than something I have to dress up for or be self-conscious about."
I’ll guide you through profound practices and trainings that will show you how to:
✔ Discover your wants and needs and how to ask for them
✔ Start initiating sex because you actually want it
✔ Feel sexy and become multiorgasmic
✔ Learn to have different types of orgasms in different ways
✔ Learn to orgasm from penetration
✔ Discover your unique path to turn on and how to confidently communicate it to your partner
✔ Begin putting your pleasure and needs first, guilt-free
✔ Establish and enforce boundaries that previously kept you drained
✔ Learn to surrender into your feminine and let your masculine partner lead
"I broke my vibrator dependency! I can now orgasm through penetration!”
Now, you want me to put a what up my what?!
If you’re new to hearing about the jade egg practice, you might be thinking, “what IS a Jade Egg” and “how does it help?”
No worries love, I will guide you through everything you need to know about using Jade Egg practices to release blocks, so that you can fully embody pleasure and sensuality.
The Jade Egg is an egg-shaped stone used vaginally.
With the Jade Egg inserted, you can practice a variety of squeezes, releases, and breathwork practices that help you experience more
IT’S LIKE YOGA FOR YOUR VAGINA!
As a certified jade egg coach through VITA Coaching, I’m highly trained and will teach you everything you need to know to use the jade egg safely and effectively.
The jade egg practice is not simply putting an egg in your vagina and hoping for the best…
It’s an ancient practice that’s been adapted to the needs of modern women like you
To help you integrate trauma and re-wire your nervous system for more pleasure.
The jade egg practice helps you to cleanse and clear all stories, beliefs and trauma not in alignment with your pleasure by helping you build sensate-focus and strength in your vaginal canal.
Helping you to gently release what’s in the way of pleasure and help you fill up with positive beliefs and pleasure-filled relaxation.
You don’t get this by “fixing your hormones, buying a new sex toy or getting a shot in your clit.
You get it through regular practice over several months…
“Last night we finally did full penetration!!!! And no pain!!! I did the jade egg breathing practice during and it really helped me to relax. I am so stoked.”
The Program Breakdown
This 5 month program contains 40 transformative practices and techniques drawn from deep Taoist wisdom, Gestalt therapy, modern meditation practices, neuroscience, and trauma healing.
They are all simplified into 10 different lessons in easy-to-learn video and audio exercises to help you transform your relationship with your body and sexuality.
Plus, you’ll have weekly group calls & monthly private breakthrough calls with access to me for 5 months.
I’ve designed this program to be a COMPLETE healing journey - so you can get off the hamster wheel of healing and back into your pleasure.
This is not some online course that you buy and wish for the best.
With weekly group coaching and massive accountability and support, I promise you, you will get through the program.
In each of the 10 lessons, you’ll be given:
- One 25-45 minute video teaching to introduce you to the core concepts of sex and pleasure you never got growing up
- 2-5 embodiment and/or meditation practices to drop into healing and releasing old stories and stuck energy and cultivate your sexuality
Each week, you will join one of our group calls (we have different call times to choose from to accommodate different time zones) where we will switch on a rotating basis between:
👉🏽Live Jade Egg Practice Sessions
👉🏽Community Celebrations/Clearings/Desires and open Q&A
👉🏽Monthly private breakthrough call with Tilly
As you now see, SEW is NOT a little dab of womb healing here, a little dab of inner child work there, or a little dab of jade egg teachings to dip your toe in the water and see if you like it.
And it’s certainly NOT therapy or couple’s counseling.
The coaching support and embodiment practices are here to not only allow you to completely transform your relationship with your body and sexuality…
But to tap into pleasure throughout the day
So you can be more present with your kids, family and those you care most about.
"I realized I actually wanted to be submissive in the bedroom and this program helped me own that! My favorite part of the program was the group sessions. They were amazingly beautiful, safe spaces to talk about things I had fear and shame about. And talking about them broke the shame down."
- Alex T.
In my 10 Lesson process, you’ll focus on and learn things like:
Lesson 1 & 2: PLEASURE!
- Discovering your inner yes or no
- Self consent
- Learning how to speak what you want/desire
- The anatomy of arousal and female pleasure
- The felt sense and body sensations
- The Taoist 3 part energy system
- Yin/yang energy as it relates to sexuality
- The seasons of pleasure & sexuality
Lesson 3 & 4: HEALING!
- Recognizing trauma in your body and how to heal it on your own
- De-armoring techniques
- How to self regulate, self soothe and resource
- Clearing stuck and stagnant energy that lead to female health issues
Lesson 5 & 6: POWER!
- Uncovering your desires
- The power of your pleasure, body, truth & boundaries
- The 3 types of power
- Sexual sovereignty
- Awakening fire and burning through blocks to full body orgasm and pleasure
Lesson 7 & 8: WILD!
- Discovering Sexual wholeness
- Playing with sexual archetypes
- Choosing a new and empowered sexual identity
- Wildness as a full body yes and the key to surrender
- Keys for accessing wildness and surrender so you can fully receive pleasure
Lesson 9 & 10: SEXY!
- Foundations for sexual/relational thriving
- Creating Love/Safety/Belonging in your system
- The 8 Holistic Sex Techniques
- Discovering your authentic sexual expression and flavor of sexy
- Exploring permission and sexual accelerators and brakes
- Learning your erotic language and how to communicate it with your partner.
- Incorporating your pleasure awakening into your relationships
”I feel so much more powerful in myself and in my confidence. Before 2020 I felt relatively confident and sexy, but all that was taken away during the pandemic. This program has brought me back but in a better way! Before, my confidence and sexiness was a projection of what I was supposed to be, but now it’s more a part of me. It feels a lot more solid now and I feel like I can decide on what I want and go do that and not worry about what other’s are going to think about it.”
1. Bonus Training for your Relationship and Sexual Health
Wondering how this will effect your relationship, I’ve got you covered! In this bonus training, I give you 4 practices to better communicate about sex and intimacy, and several other practices to help you ignite the spark between the 2 of you again!
And if your hormones have been an issue, if you're worried your diet and environment are contributing to poor sexual health, I've got you covered with practical ways to detox your environment and up your self care for optimal sexual health.
2. Private app and online community
This is a intentionally created, powerfully supportive, exciting and memorable community to engage with your sisters also on the same journey.
You don’t have to participate, but if you choose to, you can share your experiences and get real, loving support from other members and myself.
And you don’t have to worry about if someone you know might actually see what you’re posting…this is NOT Facebook!
3. Lifetime Access to your Member Library
This guarantees that you’ll always have the practices and support to turn to when you hit your next level of peeling the pleasure onion!
In just 5 months, you’ll massively up level your relationship with your body and sexuality.
Don't just take my word for it. Hear from so many of our graduates! Just press play to skip the intros and get right to it! ⬇️